WHY THE BOWTIE?

“How did you come to start wearing bowties?”

I can’t say exactly when or why I developed a fascination with bowties, but I think it began in late 2010.  I had a friend or two who wore them, and I was intrigued.   I went to a bal in early 2011 and ordered a bowtie and vest.  The bow, I must shamefully admit, was a pre-tied bowtie.    However, later that same year, I purchased my first couple of bowties at Belk, with the intention of learning to tie them.   I worked with a guy who was really good at tying them, and he attempted to teach me, but it just never took.  I could tie them around my neck and slip them on, but that wasn’t good enough for me.   I must have watched every video known to man on the subject.  So, I finally asked a friend for help. After sitting in my car—of all places—for no more than 15 minutes, I had the basics down and was told to go home and try it on my own.   I did, and the monster was unleashed.

I now have a collection of around thirty or so bowties.   And, I will proudly admit that I can tie a bowtie in about 1 minute—without looking in the mirror.   It’s actually easier for me to tie a bow time than a regular necktie now.  

So, WHY THE BOWTIE?   The bowtie is a classic and versatile accessory.   It can be used for a formal occasions such as a wedding, funeral, banquet or can even be used to dress up a pair of jeans and button down shirt.   While there several people who despise the bowtie, the vast majority of people say that not only do I know how to wear a bow tie, I own it and rock it.  At least I’m good at something!

Here’s my confession: Love it or Lump it, my bow tie is here to stay.  Contrary to common misconception, I don’t wear a bow tie every day.   In fact, I haven’t worn a bowtie to work yet since I began my job in early May.  I mainly wear the bowtie on Sundays to play for church, etc.   I generally get a far more positive reaction to this versatile accessory.